Me (22) and my boyfriend (24) are in a long distance relationship for more than a year but we don't see the distance closing.

2021.10.25 08:31 Valuable_Sample3588 Me (22) and my boyfriend (24) are in a long distance relationship for more than a year but we don't see the distance closing.

It might be a repetitive question but I would really appreciate some advice for my case. My bf and I started dating online and we have met 3 times and both of them were 2 days long trip. The last trip we went to was a month ago and we had the best time ever. We got to spend a lot of time with each other and tried our best to catch up on all the time we weren't together. But I feel, and so does he, that no matter how many days we stay together in a row, it will never be the same as living in the same city, let alone in the same house, and have the freedom to meet each other any time we want. There's so much planning that has to be done, checking of schedules so that the dates of our trip align, etc. Although we try our best to stay positive, we both are not very fond of LDR (in the sense, we both would appreciate physical presence).
All the aforementioned stuff was about our relationship. To sum it up, he makes me so happy and I am sure vice versa and we have the best time with each other, be it on calls or in person or binge watching movies and so on. The problem is, I don't know if it makes sense. Recently, I read somewhere and I shall quote it: "A long distance relationship only makes sense if you have a fixed date when you get to be together forever after waiting. Like after college, or serving a tour of military duty. If you maintain an indefinite long term romantic affair over long distance you are basically using the pretense of your relationship to prevent yourselves from moving on." It was a little harsh to read for me. I (and I am sure a lot of people who are in an "indefinite" LDR as it is called), purely believe that if you love a person and want them in your life, you will do anything and everything to keep them in your life. I don't believe in the concept of "the one" or "soulmate", but I do believe that there is a right person for you and you both weren't meant to be together, you both worked hard and sustained the relationship and communicated and that's why the relationship was successful. If you feel the person is worth the wait, you will wait. But what I am wondering is, wait for how long? I know for a fact that we won't be able to live in the same city (atleast for the next 2 years or even more). We would have to put in extra efforts to meet (which we are already doing), but is it worth it? Deep inside I feel it is all worth it, but am I being stupid or high on love which is hindering my process of thinking rationally? My boyfriend might get tired of LDR because in all honesty, I feel he hates it but he never really says that directly. Instead he says I make it worth it but I don't know how long he will feel that way and if it is fair for him to be in an LDR just because of me. We miss each other a lot and keep saying that all day. We have talked to each other about this and always decided to continue the relationship because, as I said again, "it's worth it". But is it? I just wanted to know everyone's opinion and perspective. I won't take a complete decision based on the opinions of y'all ofcourse, don't worry about that. I just want some external opinion.
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2021.10.25 08:31 nun_the_wiser How do I make it work?

Basically, I know the answer is “you need to quit.” However I’m not in a position to do so.
So how do I keep my head down and work until May, which I think is when they’ll let me go. They are putting the youngest NK in daycare and not acknowledging that I won’t be working 40 hours, won’t be on mat leave, and they won’t confirm schedule changes.
The issue: I’ve struggled with MB for a long time. Her children are very attached to her and she’s very hot/cold with them and I never know what mood she is in. Sometimes she barges in and leaves right away - baby cries for ten minutes. Sometimes she plays and cuddles with baby for half an hour, then leaves and I have a tantrum to deal with.
I tried to politely discuss with her that it was making my job harder. She said she knows that. But “there’s no benefit to me WFH if I can’t see my baby” and “it’s my house and I go into any room I want” and then she made a jab at my fertility (we’re doing treatments - they know because I’ve recently had to take days off for it).
I can’t get over this: “I think it’s better for baby to see me and cry for one minute than to not see me at all.”
Am I crazy? That’s fundamentally incorrect no? The 1yr old having an emotional breakdown 3-6 times a day is not better than once a day!
I am putting up with it but I don’t know how to put my guard back up with her. I thought she respected me but it’s clear I’m just the help.I need advice on how to maintain neutrality with a boss that demands a lot of emotional energy.
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2021.10.25 08:31 Bigselloutperson Monitoring VLF

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2021.10.25 08:31 AccordingOrder8395 I feel my work isn't worth the paper I am publishing it on

Hello, I am not sure if it's the right place to ask. It relates to the field as a whole but is more of a meta advice question so my apologies if the wrong subreddit. I am a first-semester master's student in the US in a very small university.
How many times have you had a paper with an interesting idea to solve a problem?
Recently, I started working on publishing a paper. The research question is interesting, and while I have a solution, I don't think the approach I take to solve the problem is interesting enough to be worth publishing.
All I am doing right now is chaining ideas I had from reading a couple of different papers and combining them to solve this problem with no really interesting idea from me. I don't think my work is worthy to be shown even at a conference, let alone be called research.
It's an applied cryptography problem.
I look at all the good conference papers that Ph.D. students have published (I visit well-known people in the field's website, look up their students to see their work), and they all seem to have fantastic work, while here I am. People seem to be building new schemes for zk hash-based signatures, or working on new candidates for verifiable delay functions, while here I am chaining existing research together and applying it to a problem, and calling it research work.
I talked to my advisor about it, but he said I am overthinking, and that my work is decent enough even for a journal let alone worth being published in a conference. Although, he's saying that to make me feel better. I am starting to lose confidence, thinking I might not be cut out for research. Of course, I am not going to give up, and keep working on myself, but, I thought I'll ask you that initial question that I asked?
Internet is great because people can bluntly answer me, so I am hoping for a blunt answer.
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